Me Being Gay – Sigmund Freud’s Behavioral Theory Proved
I AM SO FRIGGIN’ GAY and I AM SO VERY LOVING IT
Thank
you GOD for creating me thus,
Thank
you dad for sowing your seeds,
Thank
you Dr. Freud for helping me understand and
Most importantly,
Thank you Mrs. Thomas for teaching me how to read and think…without you, all of
this wouldn’t have been possible.
Though this particular multi-part series is dedicated to my
father, I had a passing thought that it would be much more enjoyable to you, my
lovely readers if I had to confess a bit. What’s life without a bit of gossip
hey?
Well, instead of letting you imagine too many great things
about my ever so simple life, I thought I could tell you a bit about myself and
how I am proud of my father for having denied things in my childhood that has
led me to being gay.
There are many scientists who have various theories on us, “gay
folk” or in the words of my father “the degenerate homosexuals”. There was one
lady doctor who proved that the size of a gay man’s hypothalamus is half the
size of that of a “straight” man’s while another proved that it was the result
of the societal influence that led us to being gay.
While there was one other scientist who proved that choice
lets me “lead such a life” (I really wonder if a person
would choose to live in a country that is so homophobic, constantly be on the
search for that elusive “soul-mate” and in the meantime getting burnt by every
single fling AKA relationships…perhaps that last “scientist” would have to
rethink his theory on how one would willingly choose to live in persecution,
discrimination and possibly on the receiving end for anything that goes wrong
in the society),
I am more inclined to look at the genetic hand-down through the mother’s genes
coupled with the subconscious-suppression of childhood need.
For those of you who are not certain about what it is that I
am blabbering, then let me make it simple for you. I AM GAY AND AM SO VERY PROUD
OF IT.
As I believe in the words of the wonderful scientist who
studied the size of the hypothalamus, I thank
GOD with all my heart for having created me GAY. Dear GOD, I couldn’t have done
it without you….thank you so very much for having made me the way I am and I pray
that I am made just the same way for the n number of time you wish to
reincarnate me.
Since I also believe in the suppression of childhood wants
affecting adult behavior, I thank Dr. Sigmund Freud for having understood the
concept and putting it out there for us to understand ourselves.
Sigmund Freud stated that when a child is consciously denied
a particular want, which later is manifested into a subconscious denial, such a
want does not vanish completely, rather it is reflected in the behavior once it
grows up to be an adult.
My father denied the most important things that I, as a
child, could crave for …that fatherly love, care, a tiny little embrace to
transfer the warmth and make me feel secure that everything is alright and
everything will be.
Since the time I remembered
and retained a lot of things in my memory, I never had felt either of the above
mentioned items. Rather they were all replaced with fear, fear and more fear.
This led me to finding the fatherly love in the most
unlikely places and from the most unlikely candidates who took sexual advantage
of my teeny li’l body (at the age of three. Yes I was teeny back then and none
the better now).
I looked for care and embrace amongst uncles who were more
interested in making love to my throat. I looked for that sense of false
security in that hairy embrace of strangers who left a void that could never be
filled.
After all this, the only impression that each and every one
of them left in my mind was that I had to “service” them for them to make me
feel secure!!! Well such a “security” lasted exactly for “ELEVEN Minutes” and
then they dressed in a hurry before my aunts or their wives could return back
home!!!
Yes, I was naïve to think that such encounters would give me
the sense of security but at the age of three to seven, aren’t we all meant to
be naïve and not be exposed to sex so early???
Hence, life as I have known it has been a fun run. If you haven’t
understood a word that I have said so long, then all I can say to you is J and for all of you that have understood
every single word that is stated here……LOVE Y’ALL.
:-) i understand enochlly... Perfectly well...
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